Writing for your spouse?

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Ryan Horst

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This seems as good of a forum section as any to post something like this. I know it was a common, often celebrated, practice to write letters, love notes/poems, etc, to spouses when away from home - whether at war, hunting afield, away just for work. Have any of you guys taken up the challenge?

Years ago I wrote a short bedtime story for my wife as a way of working through our infertility issues early in our marriage. It started when she asked me to tell her a bedtime story to help her get to sleep after a particularly hard doctor’s appointment. The really cool thing is that before I finished the story, though, we found out we were pregnant with our first daughter (of three, now). I finished it after she was born.

My wife is the epitome of “girl boss,” acting as the Executive Director for a multi-million dollar nonprofit organization funded through an endowment. She’s also a 5th degree Tae Kwon Do instructor. Trying to balance that work/life balance has been progressively hard for her, and she was having a hard start to what became a harder year this past year. So for Valentine’s Day, I wrote this for her and framed it. I’m hard at romantic gestures (I might be undiagnosed autistic), so she really loved this one.

Let me know if you can’t read the text in the pic and I’ll post up the whole poem as text.

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We keep a pad of sticky notes on the counter and write each other notes regularly. I’ve collected her notes in one of my work notebooks, just to keep, and I always try to remember to date them. Great way to keep intimacy alive in a marriage. It’s not the grandiose gestures. It’s the little things. A long time ago, I would write letters, and perhaps I should get back to that.
 
We keep a pad of sticky notes on the counter and write each other notes regularly. I’ve collected her notes in one of my work notebooks, just to keep, and I always try to remember to date them. Great way to keep intimacy alive in a marriage. It’s not the grandiose gestures. It’s the little things. A long time ago, I would write letters, and perhaps I should get back to that.
Brave of you to mention the wifey.
 
I recently found this box of letters from my grandfather to my grandmother in WWII. They tell a great love story, but some of them were definitely a little spicy.

Around 20 years ago I bought a wooden box for me wife and each of my kids and started writing them letters and notes. The box was to keep them. Havent been able to bring myself to go through Susan's box since she passed last year. One day.

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I recently found this box of letter from my grandfather to my grandmother in WWII. They tell a great love story, but some of them were definitely a little spicy.

Around 20 years ago I bought a wooden box for me wife and each of my kids and started writing them letters and notes. The box was to keep them. Havent been able to bring myself to go through Susan's box since she passed last year. One day.

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Love the grandparents letters story, and yours. Condolences on her passing.
 
I’ve been working on something for my wife. Help me out and contribute a verse!

After a windy winter morning waiting on that buck
You’re like crawling in the cab of a pickup truck

After a late night of dancing and a-drinking booze
You’re like rolling over, baby, and hitting snooze
 
I recently found this box of letters from my grandfather to my grandmother in WWII. They tell a great love story, but some of them were definitely a little spicy.

Around 20 years ago I bought a wooden box for me wife and each of my kids and started writing them letters and notes. The box was to keep them. Havent been able to bring myself to go through Susan's box since she passed last year. One day.

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I believe the 324th FG was flying missions in P-40s around Egypt and Sicily early war and then P-47s in Southern France from Mid-44 on. That’s a Bad mofo. Have any photos of him overseas?
 
I believe the 324th FG was flying missions in P-40s around Egypt and Sicily early war and then P-47s in Southern France from Mid-44 on. That’s a Bad mofo. Have any photos of him overseas?
I have tons of photos from overseas. He flew 83 combat missions but all in the P-47. You are 100% correct. I have been the historian for the 324th for quite sometime now and used to go to their reunions.
 
I have tons of photos from overseas. He flew 83 combat missions but all in the P-47. You are 100% correct. I have been the historian for the 324th for quite sometime now and used to go to their reunions.
No kidding, good stuff man. Didn’t think I’d find another WWII history freak here. 1st MARDIV in the PTO is my concentration so ETO/MTO isn’t exactly my wheelhouse. Helluva legacy you’re carrying on. Well done.
 
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