DEEP waters here, I'm gonna wade in anyway.
Repeat after me, say it out loud; PTS is not a disorder. There is nothing wrong with me. I do not have a disorder.
Your PTS could be from bad social/family history, MIL/1st responder service.
SCENARIO;
Bob: Have you talked to Jack lately?
Mike: No, he's still working through some PTSD stuff from deployment. Kinda out there right now.
Bob: Oh f*&k, I hope he's OK, been struggling with this for years....
Correct, Jack's 100's of years of genetic memory tell him there's NOTHING wrong with him, but the last 40 years of American white coat authority have told us we're damaged goods; Hollyweird, TV, podcasts, the VA, friends and family holding men and women at a distance with prescriptions. Jack's heart and soul and genetic memory know there's nothing "wrong" with him.
DISPLACE/REPLACE: Self-medication and self-deception are coping and survival mechanisms. Until we get time and distance from the event, this shit saves you. Self-meds can turn into a crutch, then a bad familiar habit, then a handicap that takes valuables. Valuables like friends/family/houses/spouses. Forget it, move on. You CAN stop self-medicating now, you are normal. Stop for 2 weeks, months, or years, but cut the cord from that destructive path.
"Dear Lord, thank you for these gifts, I ask for you to come into my life again today and remove these difficulties of self in anger, fear, resentment. Replace them with your Courage, strength, and Joy to better help those of your children who still suffer. In your Son's name Jesus Christ I do pray. Amen." KEYS; gratitude expressed, ask for Him (out loud) into your life every day, and it is to be in his Son's name I pray. We are adventurers and warriors from 1000s of years ago, our genetic memory tells us contrary what the white coats are saying; there's nothing wrong with us. Ditch the shame, guilt, and anxiety today of things done or said yesterday; you now have a new site alignment, site picture, and your target focus is coming back with relief.
.....Pffft, wtf is this Milo guy?.... Take a look at what Micah Fink has been doing at Heroes & Horses, and YOU carry this message to that "Jack" in your life; Dude, there's nothing wrong with us!? Holy shit! Let's go fishing dude, look for some sheds, scout that spot down by the river! WHY does going into the adventure of the fish/hunt/camp/bike/hike outdoors hit us? It tickles that 1000 year old genetic memory-holy shit I KNOW those mountains?! Get out there, drive on, keep moving, keep doing.